The Big and Beautiful Controversy
Big Beautiful and Happy
If you think Big is Beautiful more power to you! I read in the media that the organiser of the annual Miss Big and Beautiful Beauty pageant lamenting on the challenges and obstacles which stand in her way.
Lead by people like health professional Dr Henry Frazier, the competition has received some harsh criticism for featuring full size (aka fat) women as encouraging obesity and a lifestyle that leads to heart disease.
One of the innovations that promoter spoke of putting place was the requirement that all the “Big” women in the pageant MUST join a gym.
Now to me that doesn’t make any sense, obviously women following that advice will get smaller which seems to go against concept of being “Big and Beautiful”. If you are going to the gym how will you make that 200 lb minimum weight requirement to enter the competition?
The promoter should not sway from her principles, she needs to “screw her courage to the sticking place”
If you believe that being Big is Beautiful Stand Up for it!
If Asiba and other skinny starve out people don’t like fat girls, that’s their frigging business.
They are men out there who will do any thing for a plus size woman so who the ass are you to say they are not beautiful.
Remember Captain Sawyer 2005 calypso about how he likes them “Big and Fat and Thick”? that is the national anthem for some men.
If I was the promoter I wouldn’t change a damn thing, in fact I would be promoting my contest and my girls will be better and bigger than ever and if you don’t like that well you know what you can kiss, that’s big too!
If during the reading of this blog there is any thing I might have written which might have incensed or offended you, GET OVER IT! There are many things I read and hear in the media on a daily basis that I don't like either. SO DEAL WITH IT! You are welcome to leave your comments though. Make sure and come back yuh hear !!!...
July 6th, 2008 at 8:55 pm
They say that I dont like FAT people
They say that I criticize FAT people
But they lie. I’ll tell you why
Dont laff dont cry
Ii like to see people
I want to see FAT people
I like to see FAT people
Yes I want to see FAT people
In the Gym –exercising
huffing and puffing
In the Gym– pumping
moaning and groaning
Yes I like to see FAT people…………
FROM THE ABOVE YOU CAN SEE THAT I DONT HATE FAT PEOPLE
I really dont hate people. As a matter of fact I love FAT women but it aint every thing that you like that is good for yuh.
My beef is wid overeating and over-drinking and the choice of foods
I think there is a measure of indiscipline and ignorance on the part of people -most of us -who over indulge: If we eat a plate of rice and macaroni pie and then wash it down with a 16ozs sweet drink everyday for 30 years we will grow FAT and some of us will get FATTER and FATTER.
When I wrote the song -Too Much FAT on de road, I was not against FAT people as some people think but it was out of health concerns and not a song against FAT WOMEN.
Even though I mentioned men in the song people still said that it was about FAT women. Even one of my bosses at work had something to say about ‘this song about’ FAT women
She is a woman.—- while the overall boss at the time congratulated me on a good song and the early release of the song.
And if we do no form of exercises-walking –going to the beach–dancing at fetes etc we add more pounds . And we eat 10 times an hour mostly sweet stuff we will pack on the pounds. The longterm effect translates to a serious economic drag on our health services and we end up spending money on health that could be better spent on other more deserving and uplifting ideas and projects. OBESITY IS A SERIOUS PROBLEM
RIGHT NOW in Japan the Government is measuring you waist and if it is over a certain size , you are asked to reduce over a period of time. If you refuse , there are fines and punishment awaiting you. OBESITY also contributes to Global Warming ; A recent study found that OBESITY contributes to Global Warming and this is a scientific fact.
SO GET FIT -NOT FAT
TO ALL THE FAT PEOPLE-(MEN AND WOMEN) –Asiba love wunna -Asiba cares and Asiba is looking out for your good–
Get Consious !
July 6th, 2008 at 8:57 pm
P.S
The model in the picture looks pretty shapely to me
She LOOK llike food !
July 7th, 2008 at 1:48 pm
I myself am overweight, but i am not asupporter of the show because as i see it these ladies use this show as an excuse to be unhealthy. There is one thing in being big nice and sexy there is another thing with stomach hanging down and wearing lingerie saying you are confident in your skin. I am one who is anti this show and that comes from a healthy 210 lb BBW.
July 7th, 2008 at 5:10 pm
You go girl !
go soca lover go !
big and beeautiful –hey !
July 23rd, 2008 at 10:26 pm
Who tell wunna de people in the show unhealthy, if you weighing 210 lbs and healthy, who is 2 say dat them in the show unhealthy………Dr Socalover!
October 7th, 2009 at 11:43 am
BEAUTIFUL WOMAN
Quantity and quality are ameasure of sanity
to be tiny and skinny has nothing to do with being healthy
yes i am a plump woman
with wide round hips
lovely medium caps
narrow waist
and i wount let any one say i am a waste.
i am a queen i know
my every step will show
and even if i am afraid to grow
i will stand firm and go
proud to be me
happy to be free
and swaying like a tree
Big is beautiful
lovely is full
so girl dont be afool
to be put down by a legs pull
let it be your goal
never to stall or fall
but always walk tall …….because ……yes you are abeautiful woman !
April 30th, 2010 at 8:23 am
Fat and ugly. It’s the new beautiful for people too lazy to take care of themselves. Or something PC.
May 13th, 2010 at 12:30 am
Alot of ppl real hypocritical tho many slim ppl not healthy but becus i have size im criticized and ostrosized as being unhealthy; I weigh in about 269 and i aint got no flabs not one, no tyres and i run laps around sum slim ppl i work out at uwi i try tol eat right and there are some slim ppl that eat even more than i do and even worst whats more half of them walk around with the same dimpling legs and ponched stomachs look as bad as ever and walking around in shorts for everyone to be subject to there legs and stomach fat talk about that too! i dont see why the pageant should be an issue why is it so bad becus a lady has size she cant feel sexy; beatuy is not always at face value the confidence exuding from a woman who can withstand shit talk from miss 210 and the like that feel they so much better than us bigger women and still strut her stuff on a stage, is beatuiful- the love she has for herself. Cause ppl like you make us insecure becus we supposed to be ur idea of beautiful well wake the hell up we the frikin majority.The world is changing in fashion, there are accomodations for plus sized models an we represent real woman. Its fair enough to argue health yes preach health but what does this have to do with the pageant. There is no proven relationship between unhealthy habits and the pageant. I no personally past contestants that are now in the gym and leading healthy lives so the assupmtions being made are wrong.
I just had sumtin to say !I am big Beautiful and loving it. sign me up for the next one!!
May 25th, 2010 at 12:49 pm
I’m a big girl myself and I’m quite proud of who I am. Just because I’m bigger than the status quo matchstick doesn’t mean I am not beautiful. I may never be a size 0 but I do know one thing, I understand,am comfortable with and love myself just the way I am and if anyone has a problem with it… Well, I could careless. I’m tired of people criticizing “fat” people all the time. They act like their paying for their gym membership. Oh well. I’m not sweating it because honestly none of them paid for me to hit a gym or pay for me to eat or pay for my anything for that matter. So I just don’t care about what society has to say. Much love ya’ll <3
June 6th, 2011 at 12:53 pm
big can be beautiful and if the worlds too shallow to notice then thats their problem i would rather be with a big beautiful woman who is happy and mostly self confident than be stuck with an annorexic skinny girls who your affraid of intimacy with because you might hurt her or you can’t enjoy taking her out for a meal. Everyone is entitled to an opinion and there is no right or wrong with big women they are who they are and usually have great personalities can’t people learn to love people for them being themself instead of because there looks.
big is beautiful thats my opinion