That was impressive transition Lyrical lava merging your comment into an endorsement for your marriage event; you should work in marketing…

I AM LISTENING TO VOB at the moment -guess what is playing —–GWEN GUTHRIE singing these words –

-no Romance without finance
you gotta have a JOB
if yuh wanna be wid me
etc.

Some years ago it dawned on me that Marriage is a financial arrangement
Money figures very prominently in life and marriage is an aspect of life that is very much iinfluenced by money. Love is not neccessarily a crucial factor in this marriage thing and when we examined the situation we can agree that many marriages depend on what you bring to the table financially. Women with their damsel in distress mentality feel that men are to provide for them , that men are the ones to bear the brunt in everything. Women’s fantasies include marrying a millionaire. If a man does not meet that profile he is merely tolerated not really loved.

These two words commits a MAN to torment or to biss

For something so seriously engaging
To think that 2 little words
can commit a man for the rest
of his life to years or torment or months of bliss is a numbing thought

Funny enough I was thinking about this subject this morning even before I read this thread and this is why I have responded

The fact is that many of us either throw away the tiara/ halo we wear on the wedding day and become all types of freaks after we get “de ring pun we finga”.

Some of us have been control freaks – because we move out from home earlier than me we think we are better at running the finances.

Other become freaks in bed. That is, most of the time when the husband wants to have sex we women have some “freaky” excuse to get out of it.

Then there is the fashion freak that knows that the man was broke when we married them but still we want to get our hair, nails and toes done every other week and cuss the men when they can’t deliver on our extravagances.

I don’t blame the men… although, men must admit that some of your are straight up freaks.

That is why I love Operation Marriage Restore and look forward to their cruise on the MV Harbour Master on November 1 (shameless plug).

Board it as a freak and get off freak-free!

(By the way, I got tickets to sell lol – another shameless, unadulterated plug!)